What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence, without a basic kind and predetermined outcome. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Naturally, constantly with regard for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, delighted state of being. The result is often a terrific physical, psychological well-being. Generally, the receiver is really unwinded, incredibly flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and presence. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. Many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is really like that touches. The hands of the giver are connected with his/her heart. The touch is loving, always focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and receives active as well as feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Loaded with attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch complete of attention and presence. Don't look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on offering or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are really out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined result
A tantric massage will always be various. It is not the technique or the preferred sequence of massaging that is essential, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that what is needed.
Tantric massages therefore often take a very unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in bliss.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limits
We knew it for a long time, obviously, however considering that the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Naturally, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both giver and receiver constantly should be guaranteed. Caring attunement constantly comes.
Set clear borders in advance
It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage need to always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is likewise entirely ok (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have actually given/received many tantric massages only on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation freely
Activating and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with regard for (mutual) borders. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays an important function once again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ production/ user-friendly energy.
Concentrated on the natural happy state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life focused on growing in love and awareness. In a split second you can become informed (by 1000% surrender), but usually, that is a process in time. Tantra knows various techniques to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose aside from self-realization: restoring the natural (ecstatic) state of being.
Generally resulting in a wonderful physical, mental wellness
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is typically good, sometimes tasty. We, for that reason, welcome you to completely take pleasure in receiving ánd offering a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of types of massage. Naturally, all massages have certain practices and methods in typical. There is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (intended at pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (focused on recovery).
Relaxation is a vital part of tantric massage, however of a completely different order than relaxation massage Why? Well since you are actually super energetic during/after the massage. You do not drop off to sleep (unless you are really worn out), you are very alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call it various. Tantra massage is definitely not a treatment! It's a type of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, however treatment is an occupation apart. Tantra massage definitely has recovery effects, but that is not an end in itself.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a detailed description, see the article on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand apart:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide excellent conditions (physically, but also mentally).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is need totally free, do not press or require anything.
* Open your own heart, a fantastic read and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* When in a while ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Use your senses.
* Offer feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Develop in integration (rest) moments.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in what they themselves discover enjoyable, enjoyable, preferable. A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "needs", stay away from your own problems and above all ... do not try to force anything. Nothing has to be done, nothing is required! Again, don't try to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are dissatisfied when someone goes to sleep. You may not be awaiting a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No desired outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this has to do with letting that energy flow.
* Respect limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily very open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. Understand that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the whole body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to restored freezing minutes. Prevent limits from being crossed again.
* Action by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. But beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and offer combination minutes (simply doing nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being quiet in your head (often entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible healing result. Even though tantra massage is not the same as healing, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn what it resembles to love yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which gives a splendidly liberating and deeply satisfied feeling.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a great deal of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love transformation, you might become not only joyful however even euphoric. An ecstatic state of being is possible. The more you give up, the much better you will feel.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Full of attention and existence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard kind, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) borders.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Typically resulting in a terrific physical, psychological well-being (of both).